This consult session serves as a wonderful opportunity to share your circumstances, ask questions and discuss cost. However, in reality, some departments may be hesitant to do so if the order is not specific clear enough. Now my quick advise. I recently sent him to Fl to visit his father ( I am on the west coast). The counselor is only hearing whatever my ex husband says about me. A.H. v. Again thank you CHRISTINE~!!! I thought it wasnt considered custodial interference if she was in physical danger. I have joint physical custody of my son,she only has visitation rights which i can deny if she is not not sober or in the right mental state. My ex husband is a compulsive liar, he is emotionally and verbally abusive, controlling and manipulative, suffers from PTSD, has anger and abandonment issues, was sexually abused as a young child and was occasionally physically abusive to me, (but not the kids) consisting of kicking, slapping and punching me during arguments. Angel, your right the attornies are out for themselves, the courts are out for the mother and the father is fighting for the best interest of the children and left holding an empty bag. We had set up visitation of every other weekend. At this time you can file a police report, which you need to do immediately then they can put out an APB. Do you want your kids or the money. My husband and I are in a battle with my step sons mother. I am a non- custodial parent, I filed a restraining order against my sons father for stalking and harassment. Hes going around spreading lies and telling people that my grandson is telling him that we are mean to him. And what should I do now? 4 days prior to my daughters birthday I had sent her attorney a written authorized consent for her to travel our of the country with my daughter, then the following day I sent her an email telling her what time I was picking up my daughter to celebrate her birthday with my family and she responded back by telling me that I she was not allowing me to take her out of the house after she gave me her verbal consent. they said he just had his panies in a bunch or wad and not to worry about it. old is in inimint danger, how can a mother who has not seen her daughter or talk to her in 7 months now what her ex to follow the divorce order. Her mother had her hid out of the house and handed a letter stating a bunch of lies and said shes not coming home as she is scared. Parenting plan states that childrens daycare is means of exchange unless daycare is not open. I know you can go on line an get all the forms to fill out on for contempt charges. All of this is my opinion and experience. I havent seen or spoken to my only child in 3 years! paid him thousands but could not keep up. Regardless of the child's age, the court will only consider the child's opinion along with all other factors. After going through a complete investigation the police had no corroboration to the story and sided that my son was coached by his father. Meanwhile The mother used that time to skip out of sight and it has taken 4 years to find child. My Well children need both parents in their lives but more than often on parent is actually going to destroy a child because they want the child with them just because that is what they want. I am the custodial parent of my minor child in VA. My ex and I have a separation agreement spelling out our custody arrangement and visitation schedule. He has supervised visits one day a week so he will only be missing two days. THERE ABOVE THE LAW!!! Uve made some decent pts in this post. We do have an appt with his lawyer but not until Thursday (lawyer out of town). This is what you will need to look at though. Not to mention, X-wife that he has assault charges with; when they were together. My ex wife and I have joint legal custody and she has physical custody of our daughter (15). This can be especially important if you have concerns about your safety or your childs safety. 2C:13-4(a) Interference with custody (including Parenting time) under 2. You will need someone who can get to the bottom of the original case and convince a judge that the order he has is in violation of the order of jurisdiction and is an example of parental alienation. law inforcement said I had to wait to days, then get a court order from a judge, and I the psyical custodian. Does the mother have to return the child if he is not returning to the fathers residence/care but is going to a different-than-ordered caretaker in whose care another of her children was driven to suicide? What ARE my rights? is there and thing I could do I am a single 22year old and I have no clue were to start all I know is the peace dose not deserve my son. And had them for 2 years. Never lead on of the disapproval you may have for your ex only the excitement you have for spending more time with your daughter. I had a syncopy episode and hit my head. Is there anything I can do to the D.A for not keeping my sons interest at best?? Just a heads up. The biological father came over one night and took the children to Charlotte, North Carolina, where he now resides. I also am concerned that he may have hurt one of our children and is afraid they will disclose it to me. Check your state code. Claiming she cant afford the gas. My ex lives off and on with her grandmother who has been diagnosed with cancer and is in no shape to care for a 4 year old little girl. If either of these questions are answered wrong a judge can do a temporary restriction to visitation (supervised visitation only) for a given amount of time subject to review. You skipped the table of contents section. I agreed to letting her see the kids under certain condition. I hope I helped. The noncustodial parent does have a say in those areas, and the court can enfore those things. My daughter is 14 and she lives with her grandparents. After 35 exchanges the other grandparents did not show up at the designated place. Does NC have the right to do that being that only paternity/child support (which hes way behind on) was established and not actual visitation? it hurts my heart. please help. Fathers move out of state may be a factor in the courts determination to award you sole legal custody, but that fact alone is not determinative. My question is: I live in Az but my 2 boys live in Ga with there dad. She has called social services on me 8 times when i let her have visitation and its time for ne to pick them up they start crying saying they hate me i ask them why they say it they tell me Grandma tells me too! It states only that visitation will be worked out between the parents around the fathers work schedule. If the custodial parent wishes to change things based off of what the child says, then they need to go to court and use that as part of their argument. My husbands ex-wife, is refusing to let him see his kids. Monica is correct when she states that joint custody does not necessarily mean that the custody arrangement is 50/50, however, when their are two fit parents who unconditionally love their child(ren) then it is the parents moral responsibility to allow said children unfettered access to the other parent and to continually foster a relationship with the other parent. Good luck! I was granted the order and he was allowed supervised visitation with our son (while his mom was supposed to supervise). They can take you to jail too if you interfere with court orders.. I will not make that costly mistake again. I dont think its fair that hes taking the only time I have with her away from me just to go to a damn parade. The validity and types of custodial interference offenses depend on the relationship of the parties and any existing court orders. 265, 26c (2010). He has them in Louisiana. now Arizona is taking my license and want to put me in jail because mom and grandparent wont tell the truth about where my child is and where lives. THANKS! The older two are in college and all grown the youngest is 16 and now out of no where she wants to call and wants him to come live with her and it has become a constant mind game with all of us everytime dad says no he calls her and she calls himIs there anything we can do to stop with this BS (for lack of better word) she hasnt given a lick the last 12+ years now she wants to call constantly about his punishments what time he should be able to come home, why he cant go somewhere. This is a very messy thing to do and I know first hand the issue as my ex has tried something simular. I did stop going and picking him up because the harassment and emotional torture would cause this sever depression.. Life went on and I had other children and was married. Usually, when the mother refuses to participate in developing healthy and positive co-parenting techniques. When we get to visit it has to be done with her or her Im not saying what he did wasnt wrong, but hes 5-YEARS-OLD! My daughters mother did that no shes a fugitive on the run and has no contact with her daughter and maybe when she gets out of jail in 5 or 6 years after therapy shell get to meet her daughter again We teach our children rules and that if you break them there are consiquences now why should it be different for you and what kind of example is that for them and lastly what gives you the right to seperate those children from THERE father. Or will the FOC just enforce payment anyways? well say for intstance im the custodial parent and the non custodial parent (dad) hasnt attempted to come see his kids since our last visit to court november 2011 and i got an email from him saying hes filing police reports for not letting him see the kids again these are false police reports because he hasnt even attempted to see the kids or call and by the way he knows my address and telephone number what should i do is it even possible for him to get police reports without me there? Not only does she use my daughter as a shield. Custodial interference in the first degree is a Class B felony. I love this response and it is so true to so many cases if the parents would just set aside their differences and do what was right for the kids things would be much better. Recently I became aware of the fact that unless the court specifically words it in the visitation orders police have no legal court jurisdiction, it would need to be taken back to court for the jusdge to decide or revise, is this true? father has been molesting him probably his entire life. No they will do nothing but make you spend more money as to what we are about to do again spend more money! 4. I went and filed for court the other day to see about getting the every other weekend like the normal way, my fathers son got his mail and texted flipping out. Have you fought for the rights of your child, been active in their lives or signed over your parental rights or ignored a filing that you may be served. people were the only family I had, when I heard this I had no fight in me, Since we live in 2 different states, custody and visitation was not in our divorce decree because the state Im in has jurisdiction over the children and our divorce was filed in the state he lives in. Deborah, I understand your suffering.. He wants to take me to court because of this summer. Look at it from this way, this reunion is more for you. we never went to court they had me attend classes and therapy i finished i got a call from my therpist that my case was closing tried to get in touch with my case worker letting her know i knew it was closed in oct that same yr. I think it was rediculous to make a 3 year old wait almost 4 weeks for a hearing. thats the way it has been. Its time to grow up folks and deal with each other nomatter what, who, or why its happening, Quit blameing, pointing fingers, quit trying to get back at each other, quit hateing one another. The grandmother from both side may monitor the visits without any interference. The $4 wasnt even due yet and I was asked by my ex to do it because he forgot to do it earlier that same day. Please help. please help. If you have such problem or similar As domestic abuse is so commonly used by women today and you assumed guilty upon the allegations where you must prove your innocence the truth is the cards are stacked against a guy in your state. I do have a court orderd 24 hour stipulation but can not affored a lawyer to help with my rights. Am I correct? What state would I need to file for Custodial Intereference? My ex refuses to let us talk and has even kept her from coming on my specified days in court order. We have fought and tried to find someone to fight for his rights and its all bullshit. I have a concern regarding a mother who ignores the children while in the same room, basically does not want to be the responsible parent to either of the children. We finally divorced in Aug 2009. can a non immigrant who is visiting the USA get temporary custody of a child if the custodial parent is arrested and cannot be within 50 feet of the child? You have to have proof of any of these things and present them in Court. DO NOT PUT THIS PRESSURE OR USE THE CHILD FOR DELIVERY OF MESSAGES! I dont know if this conversation is still open but my husband and I need some advise when I meet my husband his ex gf was in jail . Also if I have full sole legal and sole physical is he still required to help provide financially for his son? If you feel uncomfortable about living with your dad you may file a motion for review of child custody. He has visitation rights and has threatened to take me to court if I dont make them come!! This is very urgent for us considering Christmas is around the corner. My ex who is not my daughters father and is not on the birth certificate but who has a co guardianship with me has now filed a tro restraining me from seeing my daughter the tro was just dissolved by the judgeThe Court having considered the pleadings and papers on file, hereby dissolves the Temporary Restraining Order based upon the fact that the Court finds no basis upon which to grant the relief under UCA 30-5a-101, et seq. my daughters mom is the non custodial parant and all the sudden shes in charge bull sh*t. shes supposed to have superived visition. it makes no sense. I live in California and my stepson lives in south carolina with his mother. They cannot refuse you those records ESPECIALLY if you show them the black and white proof! It took almost 3.5 weeks to get him back b/c you have to file them, then serve your ex, then get a court date. I dont mean to bring you my horror story to scare you only to tell you that you may have a long road ahead, but dont loose hope. changed my entire life and everything about how I parent. (1) being a relative of the person, he knowingly takes or entices a person less than eighteen (18) years old from his lawful custody knowing that he has no right to do so and during the taking, subjects the person to serious bodily injury. February 25th 2013 is the date I moved back due to a job transfer.and since February 28th 2013 He asked me to start taking him 5 days a week and him 2 days.. I dont want to give up but I am tired of fighting with her? Unfortunately, there are a lot of internal illegal favors done within the system. The 17yo refuses to talk to him or see him and since shes 17, I dont think there is much he can do about that. We believed at the time the grandma was trying to bide time and try to get custody throught the courts. They do not like their dad, are mad, and do not want to see him. He says he will see them and wont, has no vehicle, lives with the child molester who is bipolar and has another friend who is bipolar and I copied her blogs to show her mental illness is not in control. It will follow suite under the federal law called UCCJEA. This summer Ive had them all almost all summer and their dad got them and was going to have them two weeks with after five days he sends me a message saying that he had no where for them to go and his bank account was drained and needed to bring them back. He also leaves them with his mom and goes to work during his parenting time which was scheduled around his supposed days off, his mom will keep the kids until the ended visitation scheduled time and lie about it. A judge will NOT look kindly of her and MAY strip her of physical placement. Hes not scheduled to be back before 8pm on Sunday. I was just wondering what he could do about it? He has lived in about 5 different houses with her, only one of them actually with her name on the lease, since 2008. She says she filed charges on Friday which is same day we filed for custody and we had our hearing on Tuesday after the holiday weekend. Once you have been charged and found guilty of custodiaol interference can you receive joint legal custody of your child? Now my Ex husband I havent mentioned is an EDP. What can I do? After she refuses, the father has no choice than to go and pick him up, which was all she wanted in the first place. The reason I gave my 12 year old for the divorce was me and your dad just dont get along I didnt even tell her there was a restraining order, she found that out from him. Hubby has stated that although he is not trying to keep child from her mother, he will not allow the child to return this Summer until there is a response for exs actions. When I told the ex that out daughter would be able to get her orthodonics he was upset saying that it didnt seem right that the new guy could do that for HIS daughter. Last week my step son told his mom he was going to live with his dad. (It is also in the decree that the parent shall have phone access at all times to the child.) HELP Get a mediator. Can i still be held in contempt. Approach him from that point and Im sure hell understand your desire to stay in their lives. He is currently 5 years old. That should be up to the parents to work out, outside of an adversarial courtroom. The system doesnt care about the kids at all. I would be grateful for the time with the children and not worry about changing custody since it was just established July 1st wouldnt you? . Her dad is just whining and complaining because he basically doesnt want me with my fiance. I would file for sole custody in my state since that is where the children reside. It started immediately. He has no parental controls, she is a target to bullies pedophiles and not responsible enough etc. had my son at age 15. How do we protect him and fight against the mother, which courts typically side with??? She has made my 6 year old out to believe that she was his mom and his grandfather was his dad since he could talk and there was no mention of me or his real father to him. We tried to file an emergency ex parte but the same judge denied it. I said if you will not help me I WILL CALL 911. If this doesnt work out, your son will contact you when hes old enough. However, the reason she gave for not taking him was her cancer treatments and she had the flu. I hope this helps. S. Calhan, co.80808 on/or before 8-24-2008 I went to court 3 month after to get custody of her. Peace be with you. He got mad, left said he was 18, and was going to his dads. There were WAY too many issues to list here but bottom line is I had had enough and I left. I got an attorney and she never even showed up to court after I paid her over 3 grand. My daughter and I reside in NJ but father resides in Florida. Now the child is 18 almost 19 and we still dont see her. You would just get the child support money and he would be out of the picture which it sounds like you would really prefer. In 2011 we uncovered that My 9 y.o son had been molesting It sickens me that I have to pay money to not have my kid in my life. He told the ex she is welcomed to come visit child due to lack of trust with returning child. Does it mean everything about issues with the kids are shared? I was single for 10 years after my first marriage and am now remarried and have a true prince among toads, His ex on the other hand is very difficult to get along with but I pray for her and speak kindly of her to her kids and in front of her kids cause she still is mama. You had sex, so stop blaming or pointing fingers, and if you dont like the other parents current gf, bf, husband or wife, so what, no one said you have to like them!!!! 2009 I moved to Arizona and I stop paying child support. Explains the "standard to be used when a noncustodial parent, who is living out-of-State, seeks custody of a child and permission to move the child out-of-State.". Utah law states, A person who is entitled to custody of a child is guilty of custodial interference if, during a period of time when another person is entitled to visitation of the child, the person takes, entices, conceals, detains, or withholds the child from the person entitled to visitation of the child, with the intent to interfere with the visitation of the child.. What if there hasnt been any custody case but the mother has the father arrested and leaves the state with the kids only later drop charges and still keeps kids from the father wont even telle if they are ok and i ce to the area she is at what should i do its been since may and idl where to start. The reason for the supervised visitation is because they are falsely accusing me of abusing my wife. The ex wife slapped a (false) OP on him when they got divorced so she could take the child and do whatever she wanted, and to get child support from my husband right away. Job in VA is not any guarantee either. She left for her parents leaving me with our daughter. My soon-to-be ex has been the primary cusotodial parent of our 1 and 3 y/o sons. Can you advise me in my first step? My ex and I were ordered into mediation wherein he was allowed to come to my sons extracurricular activities and call my son on the phone whenever he felt like it. Not only would it help your man but all men to show them that they can stand up to an unjust system that makes the laws but does not enforce them to protect the fathers. I never heard from my ex. even IF you were behind on child support you are still entitled to visitation with your child. She doesnt teach him anything, she doesnt make him brush his teeth (he does now because we called her out on it and she went and bought stuff so she doesnt look like a bad mother too late) and she lied about enrolling him in preschool. to this, please contact him on his email Greatowologbospelltemple@yahoo.com thank you Great Owologbo and may your gods reward you for your good deeds.. the father is now hiding the child from me. he has visitation but not for this. Any advice? If he runs with the child, its kidnapping. If you click on my name Fathers Rights it will take you to a site that helps fathers. http://www.causes.com/causes/635417-pas-intervention/about. 4thed. The father falsified a restraining order and after I was off of probation from falsified charges from the girlfriend, I took the kids and went back home to NM. You will need to bring the issue before a judge at that time. I dont want to lose my firstborn grandson to people who are too ungrateful to see that my daughter has let them be in his life to begin with now they want to kidnap him!!! and the same time as our new apt. Start with her and if nothing shows upPut her parents or her siblings. Father has never supported the baby. Then they will have to do something and they cant be bias. What have we done wrong? He said we see about everything and talk. Usually motions filed on an emergency basis are heard by the court the day after they are filed. I am the legal and residencial custodian of my 3yrs old daughter, her dad has been giving parent right, she has to sleep over his house every other weekend,and also see her every wednesday, My question is, does this mean he has shared parenting with me, and also do i need child services to inspect his home, to ensure my proper accomondation for the child? and hes pissed because i have sole custody and hes even more possed at the amount of support he has to pay..which he comes up with stories of why he cant pay it! I live in VA. My husband moved our son to Louisiana without my knowledge. I have been looking for my son since 2005. Once these men realize what the game is, they split. As I have no idea when and if she might actually do this, if anyone can help answer this question, I need help as soon as possible, do anyone who know to write a letter to the judge to ask for joint custody. he isnt allowed to talk to them or anything. I (Mother) have custody of my son, just recently my sons father gave me 30 day notice for his vacation time but i have family coming in to town that doesnt see our son very m uch the time he wants to take him i suggested another weekend besides that one but he said he wanted that weekend now he gave me a paper stating that if i didnt comply with his request he was going to notify the courts that i am in violation of the court order. Says that I am not allowed to call them either. They never wanted to leave in the first place and would rather live with me. She took them three weeks ago and is now refusing to let them come home. so yes he has to be supervisised by his father! any advice will be highly appreciated.. thankyou.. How long until youre 18? when I reached sa turns out hes in jail for robbing a walgreens. His new residence is 3.5 hours away. Any attempts to entice the kid to get away from the custodial parent is also a form of interference. The same with dropping off. My ex has sole physical custody and I have visitation/parent-time with joint legal custody (I know, pretty much the system standard), and the transportation arrangement is that we provide reasonable shared transportation for visitations. Try to defuse issues rather than assume there may be an issue that will not exist. Good luck and I hope to hear good news about things for your kids and even that she do the right thing for their behalf. This is not what he deserves. In other words, when a non-custodial parent does not return his or her child to the custodial parent from a scheduled visitation, or when the custodial parent refuses to allow visitation with the non-custodial parent in violation of the courts order. I am filing for a divorce and my sons father want joint physical as well as legal custody of him. When you say supposed to where did that come from? The father prevented his own parenting time, by not texting, according to the order. Have a great visit! ***, MARA since no one has answered you I guess I can give you an opinion and option. What are my options?? I live in New Hampshire, but the mother left the marital home with my daughter and relocated to Florida. My ex husband does not follow the court ordered custody that was changed by him in 2013 when he took me back to court on on false charges when him and his wife decided to state the person I had watching my daughter was irresponsible and left my daughter alone, They also stated my daughter and her son wete left alone cooking at 9/10 yrs old. I actually am trying to help you calm down so you dont lose custody. So, I took his phone, computer, and video games away as I saw them as a main problem in him succeeding. When My son was almost 16 years old his father brought me back to court for support , stating he HAD to raise Jordan all these years He lied in front of the magistrate telling me my son wanted a relationship knowing I would just agree to pay anything and I did. In cases where these disruptions are severe, such as kidnapping, there can be serious legal consequences. Trying to run with this on your own may be a very expesive and difficult battle to win, but understand your child is worth the time and resources. Hope this helps. While I do understand your feelings, you have to be very careful about the way you express them. Next morning we found out they were in a shifty motel where prostitute and drug dealers hang out . I am still going through the divorce process. The only way any of that would stick is if you can prove it is abuse and a judge agrees. Would the fact that my mother having been in contact with my daughter and son contradict the fact that could be a possible abduction? The last time my brother heard or seen his daughter was 2/7/2010. I should also add there was NO communication with his daughter while she was with mom. NC said that since my child wants to stay in Fl then he will not send him back to me. As for who keeps them she already knows this. Use this button to show and access all levels. He was ordered to pay child support and has done nothing but complain about that. The daycare provider has altered documents and lied for my ex in order to benefit his custody case. (That way, it doesnt look like you just dont want to drive your child any more, you have money issues.) Then he and I were texting back and forth until six-thirty when his phone died, or was turned off, and I still had not heard from Symone. Mental games are always played. 39-13-306: Custodial interference includes both removing the child from the state in violation of a custody order or harboring or hiding the child inside or outside Tennessee. 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